No one is there to help but has something to say

I’m that person who is there anytime for family or close friends. They’re having a crisis? I’m there. They need help taking a pet to the vet? I’m there. They need help getting a house project done? I’m there. Etc. & I have a busy life myself but I still make the time for them!

& then I become pregnant, currently 25 weeks with twins; everyone keeps saying “let me know if you need help with anything!” Over and over again.

Well that time has come & my husband and I need to repaint our whole house, switch our bedrooms so we can start the nursery, etc (some things I really shouldn’t be doing) we’ve been waiting for at least someone to be available to help us...and no one can be found for the help now so we started doing it all ourselves 🙄

& now when these certain people find out I’ve been helping my husband with these things, they say “you SHOULDN’T be doing any of that!”

My thoughts: Haha please shut up, I don’t see you offering your help anymore or making time to help now.

It makes me so frustrated! Maybe it’s the hormones 🤷🏻‍♀️