Currently 14.5 weeks pregnant. The baby was a total surprise. Like my mirena failed. He and I had known each other for years. He talked me out of an abortion because he said we could do this, even strictly as friends/coparents. He said he wants to go to appointments and be there for the baby. For the last 6 weeks, it’s been me messaging him. Me updating him on appointments. Me checking in on him. I decided to stop pushing and let him reach out to me...and now I haven’t heard from him in almost two weeks.

Would you bother sending messages about appointments? I had an ultra sound at 13 weeks and got the ultrasound tech to give me her best guess on what the baby is, do I bother messaging him to tell him? Sending pictures of the ultra sounds?

Like when is enough, enough?

Don’t be afraid to tell me if I’m being an overly sensitive b word about this either