So sorry for the lengthy post!I’ve been with my fiancé for 1 year and some now. We live together and really spend most of our time together. I enjoy it so much. But he has these little quirks that I’ve had issues with since we first began dating. We are very open and I openly communicate what bothers me all the time. He is so unorganized, forgetful and just doesn’t get done what needs to get done. I can tell him something straight to his face and he won’t even hear me or remember what I said if he did hear me. (Ex: can you please put the dog food in the canister so I can throw the bag away? He answers me and says “yes, I can do that.” I come back from errands, didn’t do it) we got in a bit of an argument because I was extremely stressed out due to money. I felt so overwhelmed with the fact that I cook, clean, take care of the finances, take care of all the chores, remember everything that needs to be done, events/dates for BOTH families, go to school AND I’m planning a wedding. I ask for help and if he states he doesn’t know what to do, I’ll show him but it’s like he retains nothing. I can ask him for something like can you bring me a cup of coffee please? And he’ll answer me yes of course. But then we’re sitting at our meal and I’ll ask if he got the coffee and he wouldn’t have even started it. It’s so frustrating and I don’t know if it’s something I need to just get over or what to do.. it frustrates me because he remembers things like oh in this YouTube video I saw this or oh this new game for Xbox comes out this day next month. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I just feel so so alone.