To start with my husband and I divorced for a year due to us not communicating during a difficult time. We had lost our home and our jobs and we're just getting back on our feet with a 3 yo daughter. The year apart ended when our daughter got sick and we finally spoke to each other at the hospital (during the time apart we didnt speak unless it was to say when to pick her up or drop her off) and when we talked it came out that neither one of us had stopped loving the other. I hadnt even tried to date during that year and spent the entire time completely alone. He spent the time with many hookups. Once we spoke we said we were going to take things slow- but he ended up asking me to move back in after a month back together. I got pregnant right away on accident- we had to try for over a year before we got pregnant with our daughter and never had another pregnancy scare during our 8 years together so neither of us ever expected to accidentally get pregnant.

Our son is 2 months and 11 days old now- we've been back together for a year now and life is so good I'm actually scared it's all a dream. Ive asked him if we would ever remarry and he said yes he wants to. But that was a while ago and now I'm wondering again.

I dont want to pressure him into marrying me again until he is ready. I proposed to him the first time- and planned the wedding and everything. So this time I'm hoping that HE wants to get married as much as i do. How long should I wait until I bring it back up again? If we hadnt of been apart for a year this december would have been our 9 year anniversary...