Having sex every other day

Ok, so if anyone has helpful hints or at least can help me not feel so bad it would be nice. Me and my husband have been doing the " if it happens it happens " ttc for the past 3 months, this month we are more serious and are attempting to BD every other day all month. I just don't have that high of sex drive. I want a baby so bad but this is very challenging for us :-/ am I the only one??