Name help!

Jessie • Mum of 1, another baby due in may 2020

Hello ladies hope you are all well!

My husband and I are having a little issue, we both love the names Jacob and Joseph, however both of our names begin with a J (Jessie and Jeremy). If we give our child a name beginning with J I don’t want people to think I’m doing it so we all match as if we had a girl in the future we would love to call her Ena after my grandmother.

Am I being silly in worrying about what other people think? If we have a another child and don’t give it a J name will it feel left out?!