hard decision! personally i would help the kids not the side chick. matter fact i might sue the side chick and then give her kids the settlement and be done with the whole situation!!! catch me on an island 🌴 sipping Mai tai🍹...

update—

I live in the state of NC and you can definitely sue for this. happens regularly.

reference below

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/amphtml/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/07/31/8-8-million-alienation-of-affection-award-another-reason-not-to-have-an-affair-in-north-carolina/