Fight with boyfriend because he’s trans???

My bf and I have been together for a year (we were friends for 3 years and also before he came out.”

Anyways he is female to male transgender and I am a cis female, I love my bf with all my heart and he loves me but last night something went terribly wrong...

I finally told him that I had been raped when I was in middle school by an older student (I’m currently a sophomore.) for some reason he got very offended and asked if I’m a lesbian.

I told him that I’m bisexual but I don’t like penises because of what happened. He started yelling and saying things like “so you’re only with me because I’m not a real guy?” “You’re a lesbian and you still see me as a girl which is why you’re dating me.”

I started crying and saying that’s not true at all, he started crying and it was just a big mess.

He went home and hasn’t been responding to my messages...