I need some advice. Or maybe just to vent. I don’t know what to do anymore. My husband is the laziest person I know - and such a slob. It is ruining our marriage. It has killed our sex life. And the only thing I know for sure is I can not do this the rest of my life. We both work full time - we are both in the same field. We work the same hours. He comes home and does make dinner (bc he told me he can’t come home and deal with homework and a crabby toddler) but does not lift a hand to do much else. On the weekends he is usually on the couch all weekend. His clothes are all over our bedroom floor. His crap is every where. He has about 10 projects he has started in our house and has yet to finish and because of these unfinished projects our house looks like a disaster zone. I am not a clean freak by any means but I do I understand that a house must be cleaned now and then. He agreed a couple years ago to help out by cleaning floors and bathrooms. It takes him all day sat to wash our first floor which is very tiny. He cleans the bathrooms about once every 4-5 weeks 🤢. His philosophy is to lounge around and relax and if there’s time to clean he’ll get to it later. I’d rather clean and get everything done and then know I have the rest of my time to relax. We don’t see eye to eye at all in cleanliness and it’s so frustrating. I don’t need things to be done my way but we are also raising two girls who are looking to us as the example. My oldest just responded to me the either day when I told her to pick

Up her clothes off her floor “why do I have to? Dad doesn’t”. Does anyone have advice. We’ve tried counseling. Didn’t help long term. I’ve recently realized that he is the biggest stress in my life. I feel so much more at ease when he’s not around. What do I do?!?