Tattoo. Really lost!!

Susan
My sister and i have been planning a tattoo together. My husband has been there as we've been talking about it. Apparently he didn't think we're serious about it because now he has a huge problem with the tattoo! He hates the placement,the design everything! I really want to get it with my sister we were both super excited about but now im not sure if i should get it. He told me he would never told my wrist again and he wants nothing to do with it! Im so lost! Do i get the tattoo i really want and disappoint my husband or don't get it and disappoint my sister (who is my best friend) how do i talk to him about it!?