I want to know if I’m wrong here..

Didn’t know which group to post in 😫 sorry. Okay I’m going to try to keep this short and sweet. My child’s father and i broke up two months ago. He told his ex girlfriend he thinks my pregnancy is a joke and he asked her what to do when the baby is born. I just thought that was outrageous. He also cheated on me and threatened to kill me before i give birth hence kill the baby too. Also posted my private photos and videos online . Now that i distanced my self away from him he’s telling all his friends and family i don’t want him to be in our child’s life but how can i have someone who would harm his own child in their life? He says I’m gonna poison the baby because I’m keeping her away. I don’t think I’m wrong but his friends and family are making me feel like a horrible person. Their claiming people say things out of anger but i don’t care how mad you are you shouldn’t threaten to do anything harmful. So am i wrong for staying away? I know I’m not