Boyfriend going to the club?

Question

What’s your opinion on males on relationships going to the club?

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I dont own my SO. I dont tell him what hes allowed to do or not do. Hes not my child. Im not his mother. Hes an adult. If he wants to go to a club, he can. Hell, if he wants to go to a stripclub,  he can. 
Why? Because i trust him. I respect him enough to not tell him what he can or cannot do.
And in return,  he respects me. If he wants to go, he knows he can. But im always respected.  He asks if i want to join. 
The issue is not how WE would react. I respect my husband enough to not tell him where and who at when he can go and with whom. 
He has eyes and eye candy is everywhere. I trust him. I respect him and the feelings are mutual.
But then again,  thats what adults do.

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I don't "let" him do anything. He's free to have a life outside of me. I don't control him, what he can and cannot do, or anything else. If he wants to go to the club, I encourage him to have a grand ass time, hell, fireball.

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I found a man that has the same lifestyle goals as me so I don't have to worry about this.

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As long as your man respects you, I don't see a problem with it. My man has went to the bars without me with his buddies and I've went out with my girls without him too.  But most of the time,98% of the time, we are together and we go to the bars/clubs together.

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We go to the club together but sometimes I’ll send him off if I’m not feeling techno. I trust him. He’s just there to listen to the music with his friends and dance

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Whats wrong with that? You’re just his girlfriend don’t tell him what to do and boss him around.
If you’re worried that he’s gonna cheat or whatever let me tell you something, it doesn’t matter how hard you’re trying to keep him(such as not letting him do things, checking his phone all the times, etc) if he’s not the one for you things will not gonna work out. Also in a relationship you need complete trust not put him in a box and attach him to a string and you control what he’s doing.

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My ex ruined our engagement clubbing behind my back and without me. I then found a likeminded man and we are now married :) everything happens for a reason

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If you’re not comfortable with it then speak up. You’re not “bossing him around” or telling him what to do just by saying how you feel. It’s up to him whether he wants to respect your feelings and go or not though. Sometimes you have to compromise in a relationship and that’s okay.

Boyfriend going to the club?

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