Why am I not worth it?

Question

Why am I not worth being off of his phone at the dinner table? 
Why am I not worth helping me around the house? 
Why am I not worth helping with our daughter? 
Why am I not worth coming to bed at night with? 
Why am I not worth picking up after hisself? 
Why am I not worth him having ever changed a diaper, made a bottle, or put her to bed? She’s 14 months btw. 
Why am I not worth wanting to spend time with? 
Why am I not worth him being off of his phone after the baby is asleep, so we can watch a movie or just talk? 
Why am I not worth it to him? 
I just made dinner alone, ate in quiet while he watched YouTube videos, cleaned up after all of us, put my daughter to bed alone, showered alone, and now I’m in bed alone. He’s still on his phone. AGAIN. Every day. 
I’m so lonely. :( I’m a stay at home mom to our babygirl, Doug my best to raise her right, keep her happy, and make him happy. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for him to give me any attention. I literally wait for him to get home and talk because I love him that much, and I’m treated like he doesn’t care.

Answer

Why are you not realizing that you're worth more than this?
Why are you not realizing that he doesn't get to depict your worth?
Why are you not realizing that you can do better than him and what he's putting you through?

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Have you actually talked to him about these things? Not angry and fighting, but a conversation?

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What exactly make you think HE is worth another minute of your time?

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That sounds awful leave him and find a man.You don’t want your little one growing up in a home where mommy isn’t being taken care of. There is someone out there that would adore you and your little one and take care of you. He sounds worthless take care of yourself and get out of there.

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Take it from someone who waited for a man to change for eight years and two kids later. And never did. If you have expressed how you feel about him not helping, spending time, ect.. and he still has done nothing about it. Than I would definitely consider leaving. I understand that it’s hard. Especially when you love someone despite all the bad shit they do. But you have to love yourself and think of your little one. Eventually you will find someone who will bend over backwards to spend time with you. And be a partnership with you and help. Because I’ve come to realize you can’t make someone change unless they want to. And you have to realize you deserve more than what you are getting. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide!

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You may have a child together - but all in all if you speak to him about this and he isn’t phased.. just move on.   Why be with someone if they aren’t wanting to share their day/spend time with you?   You’re keeping yourself in that kind of prison if you choose to live like that. Though it’s easier said then done - it can be done and you’ll be a better/happier person as time goes on.    Clearly, he doesn’t deserve YOU!! 
   Good luck. ☀️

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This is literally my life! I didn’t mind so much before because I lived 5 minutes from my mum so I used to spend a lot of time with her and take my 16 month old to see her. 
Four months ago my husband got a job offer abroad, and I told him I didn’t want to go as I knew things wouldn’t change. He promised me he would spend time with me and my daughter and help out more, especially that I’m four months pregnant.
Well things haven’t changed, if anything it’s got worse. When I put my daughter to bed he goes out with friends, comes home late and then wants me to get up with my daughter so he can lie in, because he’s tired. 
I have no friends here, no family, no one apart from him and my daughter. I have told him about my concerns about our marriage and the way he acts, he brushes it off as me just being hormonal. I asked if we could see a marriage councillor but he doesn’t want to. 
I just don’t know what to do!

Why am I not worth it?

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