When u break up....

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Are u getting all the things you bought him back or letting him keep it? And move on? 
I spent so much money on this guy basically his whole closet is from me. His shoes and bags everything watches ... I want it back but something tells me it will make me look tacky and stupid .. 
What would you do?

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Gifts are gifts. You don't take them back.

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Gifts aren’t something you take back. What would you do with them any way? What if bought all your clothes and kept them? Lol 
Let it go. Let it be

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They were all presents; he gets to keep them. The only way to get them back is if wants to give them back otherwise they are his.

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If you gave it to him as a gift while you were together it's his property now. You can ask for it back and see what happens but legally you don't have any grounds to stand on unless you were married. Then its usually a 50/50 split.

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Gifts are gifts. In my opinion there isn't ever a reason to take anything back.
Can't do much else than learn from your mistakes.

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Unless it's a not fully paid off house or car that's in my name, he keeps it. Gifts dont stop being gifts because you break up. Besides, what are you gonna do with his used clothes and shoes? Give them to your next man? Noooo.

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What would you do with it? Let it go move on with your life

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that's just the risk you take when buying gifts for a SO. they get to keep it unless they want to give it back

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You bought those things for HIM. They’re not yours.

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If your married or defacto and you split up, assets get split equally. So if you have a $5000 camera and you want to keep it, he gets assets worth the same amount. You don't just get to keep something because its a gift. That's the law. However, judge judy would say if you gave a gift your not getting it back, lol. 
I think it's petty to take back a gift of clothes. I would let it go, you gave willingly, let it be and move on with your life.

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