How young is too young???

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Me and my boyfriend of 5 months have been talking about having sex lately but we are unsure if it’s right because of our age. We are both 14 and virgins so we should be safe from STDs and we would obviously use a condom. I don’t really know but we both want to, we are just unsure if we are too young or would request it afterwards. I also am deathly afraid of being slut shamed if anybody found out :/ 
No hate please I would just simply like opinions.

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You are DEFINITELY too young

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Can you support a baby if you ended up pregnant? If the answer is no, you're too young.

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14 😳 good lord, please wait. 
I was a virgin until 19, and he was 22. I’ve only ever been with two people (the second one I’ve been with for 7 years and we are married. I’m now 29, he’s 33 and we are expecting our first child.)
You have plenty of time! Don’t rush this!

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I think you should wait if you are asking for our opinions or anything at all don’t do it because your not ready! , educate yourself , wait till your at least older then 16 , make sure you do it with someone you trust , and be ready for any consequences, you are definitely not ready for any of that cause at 14 I wasn’t even close to ready , So just wait , enjoy your young life and stop worrying about sex and sexual things.

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I'm going to try to say this the way I'd say it to my daughter when she's that age. You have a lot of hormone changes going on and your body is changing. It's totally normal to feel what you're feeling. It's good that you're asking questions and thinking about precautions. It sounds like you have a good grasp on some of the consequences (potential pregnancy, STDs, rumors getting around). You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. But. Always a but. All that aside, you've only been with him for 5 months and you're only 14. In all honesty I would wait. Wait until you have been with him for a bit longer and you're both a bit older. If you ended up pregnant by some chance, neither of you can legally work to support your child. Have fun, go to the movies, go to the fall carnival, have fun at winter formal and going to the fair. Take all the pictures. Just enjoy being young and carefree for a bit. Sex can wait until you're old enough to actually handle the repercussions should anything happen. Because even the best laid plans can fail and neither of you are in a place (mentally/emotionally/physically/financially) to deal with that at this moment in time. On another note, don't be afraid to be curious and to ask questions and to keep learning. I think that's a great first step. Ask questions and learn all that you can.

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You shouldn’t rush this because I do know people who where in 6th grade when they got pregnant. I personally would wait until you’re legal to have sex. Which is 16, idk if it changes with your state if you live in America. There is nothing wrong with being a Virgin. I’m 17 and I haven’t had sex and if you have to ask questions you are definitely too young.

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He may be your boyfriend now but will you last forever? What if you get pregnant then what? I wouldn't risk it. If you two last up to a year or two of being together then maybe try then though still will be young but will be older than 14.

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If you have to ask, the answer is no

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I feel you're too young. Hormones are crazy around this age which can make waiting difficult, but it would be worth waiting at least a couple more years to decrease any possible regrets. Not to mention you will want to get on birth control because even with condoms theres a risk (which increases if not used properly) so it's always best to use more than 1 form of protection. I wouldn't worry about the slut shaming in general, though. You really shouldn't care what others think of you.

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If your asking if your too young, your too young. Sounds like you have doubts already so that again should answer your own question

How young is too young???

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