21 year age gap

Apryl

Hi so I had a late miscarriage June 1st. The pregnancy wasn’t planned. We have a son who is almost 21.

Anyone else have a huge gap like that and how did it turn out?

We talk about maybe trying again since it made us really Re think our lives .Just not sure if it would be a good thing or an upset to our marriage and lives since we are almost 40 now and would be starting all over.

Before I fell pregnant I was 💯 sure I was ok with one child but since the miscarriage it has me questioning everything 🤷‍♀️😕.

Anyone have any advice?