Ok so i live in ct and my dad works in mass and has to commute there multiple times a week. For all of you westerners or whatever, ct and mass are next to each other but it takes like idk 2 hours to get there. My bf goes to school in Rhode Island.

So my dad is tired of driving so many hours just to get to and from work so he wants to move to Massachusetts. Of course this upsets me bc my school, my job, my bf, etc are all here. He told me i could either live on campus or come to mass and change schools. I don’t want to do either tbh but whatever. If i went with my dad i could go to school for free whereas if i stayed at home We’d have to be paying even more bc 1. We’re out of state 2. I’d be living on campus. I’m a junior and it’d either be half of my junior year and all of my senior year or all of my senior year at this new school. So i don’t really have friends at school so it’s not like I’d miss anyone. I kinda just go to class and come home. I’ve looked at it and i realize the pros outweigh the cons. Even though I’d miss my boyfriend a lot but y’all

My boyfriend goes to school in a different state as me so i really only see him 1. In the summer 2. Christmas thanksgiving etc 3. When he randomly comes home

Whether or not i go with my dad, my bf and i wouldnt have the summer together bc my home would be in Massachusetts

And my boyfriend is literally taking this to the extreme and acting like I’m moving to China.

The other day he asked me when we would be moving and i didn’t know so i finally told him today and he now he won’t talk to me. Whenever i bring up moving he always gets upset. I understand being unhappy but what am i gonna do?! I don’t have enough money to get an apartment and stay in ct and like i said before, even if i lived on campus, he’d be in Rhode Island during the school year and I’d be in mass when he got back!

He acts like spending money on a bus or train to come see me is the most exhausting thing in the world then he got upset when i asked am i not worth the 40 dollars it would cost him to come see me. He is being so doubtful that our relationship will work when it’s literally ONE YEAR that we’d be in two different states, as if we haven’t been in two different states since we were freshmen. I tell him it would work if we made it work and he’s like bla bla bla. It’s one thing to be unhappy but that doesn’t mean he has to be so negative towards our relationship. We’d literally be two hours apart and i know he wouldn’t break up with me but gosh darn does he have to be so dramatic. I know of girls who literally go MONTHS at a time not seeing their boyfriend and they make it work! Why is he being so negative?!?