I had a missed miscarriage on June 28th at 10wks with my first pregnancy.  It was heartbreaking and easily the most difficult thing I have ever experienced.  I elected to take miso to encourage the miscarriage (awful experience). Two weeks after taking miso I was still bleeding, had another ultrasound that revealed that my miscarriage had been incomplete. My dr scheduled me immediately for an evacuation.  I have finally just had my first normal period after this grueling ordeal; we will wait one more before trying. I can't help but feel that I will always think that the next baby as my second baby; I know I never met it or mothered it, but it was mine and it was real to me for 2 and a half months. Does anyone else feel that way?