Help 😕

My husband and I have been married for 10 months, and we have a very good relationship. However, our sex life SUCKS. He isn’t adventurous whatsoever, and when we do have sex (which is like 4-5x a month), it’s one really quick, 5 minute round. I’m just not sure what to do or how to talk to him about it without him getting upset. I love receiving and giving oral, but he’s not the kind to reciprocate. I also am into anal play, but he’s not into that at all. Basically missionary and doggy is all we do, which isn’t horrible, but I have never felt satisfied after sex. I watch porn and use toys while he’s at work (he knows about this and doesn’t find a problem with it). I just wish we had more sex. I love him to death but I feel so deprived. I’ve talked to him about his feelings and if he’s depressed, and he said he feels completely fine. He does work a lot, but even on his days off he’d rather work on his truck or just chill out. Tonight, I put on a super cute thong and nothing else, hoping he’d realize I’m naked and get turned on. All he did was hug me, kiss my head, and roll back over. He says he’s attracted to me but doesn’t physically show it. I feel like the only good sex we had was on our honeymoon. Has anyone gone through this?