Hi

I need help my head is spinning. I did not want to have a baby but since being married I changed my mind after getting married.

We said we will see how the financial position looks in Dec and start trying to have a baby. Now Dec is coming my husband says no we are not ready we dont have enough money to give a child the best and then our lives are oaused and we cant travel anymore etc. The country we stay in is also not good at the moment.. SA. Alot of insecurities.

He does not even want to have sex without a condom.