My boyfriend and I just bought a house. Due to some unfortunate circumstances earlier this year I was able to buy it out right and also pay for new flooring, paint, appliances and other things. Along with putting all the new bills in my name. We're working on getting it in to living order in the next month. New floors, carpets, paint colors and all new kitchen. Spending this money has me stressed even though I know it's going towards something wonderful and worth while and I'm stressed because that's really all I can contribute. I can't lift. It's hard to ventilate to paint. I can't build. I just feel useless :(. It's stressing me out. I could just use some words of support.