So, my fiancé and I are living with his mom and his two brothers. But I’m really about to lose my shit. Idk if it’s the hormones and the nesting or what, but I’m unsettled and frustrated.

We’ve been looking to buy our own house. I want a place to put my baby, to raise him/her and to have a place of our own. He seems more complacent about leaving his moms... he said that he’s focusing on making money in his business. I understand, and that’s fine. But part of my heart hurts.

I love his family, his mom is so sweet, but she’s a lot and I’m afraid she’s going to be even more in my space when we have this baby. I’ll just have to set boundaries if we’re still here I guess.

The other part of me got my feelings hurt. I’ll be graduating in December, but I obviously won’t be starting my career... his favorite argument move is to mention the fact that he pays all of the bills. It makes me feel beneath him. Like I’m some kind of maid or something while he makes all of the money.

Anyway, this post probably doesn’t make any sense as I’m all over the place, but I’d love feed back or advice on how to survive living in your mother-in-laws basement...