Please open! I don’t want my mother in law in my birth...am I wrong?

Hi everyone,

I’m here because I want to speak about this issue and I don’t know how to go about it.

I am due in March and I want my mom, sister and boyfriend in my birth. My boyfriend, prefers to give up his spot to give to his mother saying he prefer his mom to be there. Pretty much, if my sister don’t make it, he want his mom there, and if my sister does make it, he want to give up his spot for her to take it. Don’t get me wrong, I love her! But I really don’t want her there during that time. I honestly prefer to have my mom and sister and him holding my hand. Am I wrong? I get it, it’s her first grandson, but I don’t feel comfortable.

UPDATE:

We argued about it. I told him exactly how I felt and how I wanted it. He got upset, and said that the same way I needed my mom and sister support he needed his mom. I told him he wasn’t the one giving birth so he didn’t make sense and he don’t need his mom there, it’s his child not hers. Then he tried to give me the alternative of just being me and him or he just won’t be there if his mom isn’t there. I told him if his mom would of had a daughter she would of experienced this. I’m not taking it away from her, she will see her first grandbaby after he’s born. I just want him my sister and my mom there for the delivery. He tried to make it hard. We hung up, and then he called back saying he will be there... smh he’s so annoying. And he has the guts to call me selfish when I just want my birth to go smoothly.. smh