I just don’t want her there

So I’m 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together 4 1/2 years and live together. When we told his mother that I’m pregnant she told me that “im not capable of being a mother” and that I should get an abortion or put my child up for adoption. I believe everyone has the right to choose what to do but to me that was SO hateful of her to say. I have a full time job at a very successful business and my boyfriend does as well. Throughout my whole pregnancy she’s been pushy and rude and I’m to the point where I just can’t stand her. Just last week she told me that I need to get a second job and get on food stamps because her son looks to skinny... I’m 32 weeks pregnant and she thinks I need to get a second job??? So fast forward to now. Ive been thinking about who I’m wanting to come to the hospital when I deliver my son and all I can think is I just don’t like her because of the rude things she’s said to me and I don’t want her there. I just want this to be the happiest day for me and no drama and I don’t want to be in a bad mood. Am I being hateful because I don’t want her there..

Edit***

So there’s been a few comments about having her in the birthing room and I actually just meant having her there in general. Lol just wanted to clear that up!