35 years and older TTC Club!

Davone • I`m a happily married lesbian who is trying to start a family with her wife. TTC baby #2 the 1st is 21 yrs old.
The 35 years and older TTC club! 
I figured me we needed a space to chat, vent, and share information that is related more to us. We are facing additional issues that the 34 and younger woman are not. 
The most common cause of age-related decline in fertility is less frequent ovulation. As women age, they begin to have occasional cycles where an egg is never released. Egg quality and quantity also declines in a woman’s 30s and 40s.
Other reasons conceiving after 35 may be more difficult include:
Infection or surgery that caused scar tissue around the fallopian tubes or cervix
Endometriosis
Fibroids or uterine disorders
Decrease in cervical fluid
Chronic health problems such as high blood pressure or diabetes
Miscarriage is also more common in women over 35. This is often caused by increased incidence of chromosomal abnormalities. Women aged 35-45 have a 20-35 % chance of miscarriage.
Let's stick together and help one another :)