Condoms or pullout?

Question

So my SO and I have been together for a while and we’ve given oral to each other and all that but we haven’t had sex yet (although we both want it very badly) he’s had previous experience but it’ll be my first time. 
He tells me that every time he did it before he’s used the pullout method and it worked because condoms don’t feel good for either side and at some points I agree with him but I don’t wanna get pregnant and my parents are quite religious so it would be hard to talk to them about going on BC or getting an IUD, my country also doesn’t have planned parenthood (not that I know of) so I just need advice on how to have safe but great feeling sex?

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If you don’t want to get pregnant but still want to have sex, he wraps it up. The pull out method prevents the main load of ejaculate from entering you but there’s still precum that can contain sperm and if he isn’t accurate with his timing it’s still a risk for you. Condoms do make it feel different for the man, but it’s a small price to pay for us and we are getting off regardless. As a man I won’t speak on behalf of all women, but my wife has said there’s little difference on her end for what it feels like provided sufficient lubrications and excitement. 
This is a decision you both need to make and you have a great responsibility to ensure you are in control of your body here. Men tend to think less clear when blood is rerouted from our brain to somewhere else, so just keep the condom nearby if he makes the moves on you.

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USE CONDOMS🙄 you don’t even know he’s clean🤣 so unless you want to get pregnant and catch an STD/STI I suggest you use condoms🙂. “It DoEsNt fEeL gOoD” um lmao a shit ton of dudes still bust a nut while wearing a condom. No condom no sex, SIMPLE🗣 especially since you aren’t on birth control.

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Oh and let him know that him wearing a condom isn’t up for discussion so he can stfu about using the pull out method

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I absolutely hateeee the feeling of condoms but I used them every single time (had to use special ones because I’m allergic to latex) until I was with my now-husband. It’s not worth ending up pregnant if you’re not prepared to be a parent. And of course, only condoms can help prevent STDs if he has one and doesn’t know about it. Better safe than sorry.

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Unless you want a baby, an infection or an std I suggest you use a condom

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please use condoms. I actually know real people who got pregnant using the pull out method. especially if you have sex more than once in a row it is DEFINITELY possible to get pregnant. but if you keep it wrapped, VERY LOW chance. pull out method only works if you are on the pill or some other kind of birth control! please don’t be a person who learns this the hard way 🙏

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PULLOUT OH MY GAWD CONDOMS SUCK NEVER GOING BACKKK

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CONDOMS! Do not ever leave birth control decisions up to a new boyfriend!  If he doesn’t like the feel then he doesn’t get any - simple.  If you are able to, I would also advise getting on other methods of birth control as condoms can fail.  Also, you need condoms for protection against STI’s

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There are different types of confoms. Nonlatex ones feel better (according to my boyfriend). However, stay away from lambskin until you’re certain he has no stds/stis

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Start birth control

Condoms or pullout?

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