Too girthy for anal!???

Question

So me and my partner have tried anal many times, warming up with fingers, lube but he can only get so far before it’s painful lol

I love anal as part of my sex life but I’m worried I can’t do it with my man😂 Any suggestions?💕

Answer

So I have been having anal for around 5 months. Today, I can slide it in with a little discomfort for the first minute but then it feels amazing. Before we go to his dick, I always clean myself out with a douche and lube up a buttplug and warm myself up with that (it turns him on so it’s not like it’d be annoying to go slow!) We also use Vaseline as lube which works wonders. 
5 months ago, I could not fit his dick inside my butthole but after practice and going slow (my first butt plug was really small). Another thing is trust, learning to relax, and finding a position that feels good - mine is standing doggy! 
Hope this helps, feel free to ask questions. Good luck!

Answer

I had to literally relax and put it in myself .. as in back up slowly and then go back and forth and eventually I’d get it all the way in. Literally use half the bottle of lube if you have too.. I’m not even kidding the more lubricated it is the easier it is. And then you just have to work your way into it.

Answer

Lol he could just be too big. :/ but keep trying. Slow and steady. :) my husband puts in his tip, then goes deep immediately...it hurts pretty bad at first, but as he works it a little, it starts to feel good. So mb you just need to take the pain for a cpl seconds? Lol idk..

Answer

I have been with a dude that was just too girthy to bother with anal, the amount of time it would take to work up to it just killed the whole mood ya know. Lube is your bff if you wanna make this work as well as a ton of foreplay in that area.

Too girthy for anal!???

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