So me and my boyfriend have been together for about two years now. We started out as fwb and whenever we had the chance, we did it.. So this past month I’ve been unemployed and he’s been working non-stop two different jobs (wanna give him the benefit of the doubt) to support us. We used to have sex ALL the time or if we couldn’t he would always try to tease me and get me in the mood until we could. Lately now we just lay in bed and watch TV , he doesn’t try to make a move or anything. I finally said F it and when he was asleep the other day I woke him up with oral, we still didn’t have intercourse.. The next day my sex drive was rocketing (because we’ve never really gone this long) So while we were laying in bed I started giving him a handjob thinking it would lead to somewhere cause he always tells me to get on after a bit, but he didn’t. He came and then went to sleep right after. Don’t get me wrong he’s a great guy and I appreciate all that he’s done for me, so I assumed that maybe he wasn’t feeling it since I haven’t been working so that was a “turn off”.. Today I started a new job/career and here I am once again laying in bed with him and we’re just watching TV. I thought maybe at least we would do something tonight to celebrate or something. But nope.. He’s going out of town in the morning for his other job and he’ll be gone for about 2-3 days so I thought once again maybe we’ll have sex because he’s leaving. Still nothing, I’m not sure what’s going on but it’s been affecting my mood and I’ve just been grumpy towards everyone.