Just vent ranting

Why is that men act like they’re dead when they’re sick but when us women are sick we still take on the world. My husband and 2 oldest kids are sick and we have a newborn that I’m trying to keep from getting sick while I take care of all of them. My husband literally laid on the couch all day yesterday but today told one of our kids that he can’t lay down stairs on the couch while they watch tv because he’s sick. Then I have my mom telling me nothing is wrong with any of them it’s just allergies and they just need Benadryl. I’m so sleep deprived For the past few days. Today I was finally getting my newborn down for a nap Then I had my two aunts and my cousin all pop up at my house today and they didn’t even give me time to come downstairs. They started repeatedly ringing my doorbell and calling my phone. So I went down, unlocked the door and told them to wait to open it. Then I heard my aunt say “fuck why you’re talking about it’s cold out here” as she opened the door anyways. Then it upset me because all the cold air hit my newborn. Then they all proceeded to come in and insult me because of how messy my house is. My house literally never looks like this and It’s been bothering me so much but I have zero time to clean