Idk what to do?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, but recently we have been getting into arguments and haven’t really been communicating. I would always tell him that maybe we need a break but then he talks about how sad he would be if we did and that he doesn’t want to take a break. There’s time where I want to break up with him for doing stuff like that but I feel like that’s a bitch move and I don’t wanna do that to him. Because I do really love him, it’s just sometimes I get super frustrated and I don’t know what do do?