Accepting a woman with 2 kids? How many of u have kids outside marriage or relationship?

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Just curious to know does anyone have more than one kid and with a different man or found someone who accepted u. What are your thoughts on having kids and with someone other than your child’s father ? Or mingling after having 2 kids. Completely over with my child’s father and I no longer am gonna be trapped or held down . But do I still have a future for someone noble and true ?

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I’m not in your situation but your wording is bothering me. 
You, nor your child are to be “accepted” don’t put yourself down like that. There are so many people living in blended families and are happy and living their best lives. There is someone out there for you. Don’t stay in an unhealthy relationship because you fear you will end up alone.

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Yep. I had two. Divorced. Had two more with new guy.  New guy is amazing. 
He does all his own laundry, takes out the trash, does ALL the dishes right away, cooks dinner when I don’t feel like it, does the grocery shopping, pays all the bills, shuttles kids to/from wherever, takes care of the pets, changes most of the diapers (even the poopy ones and even in cloth diapers!), picks up after himself, makes the bed, handles bath time and bedtime, and anything he doesn’t do (clean bathrooms, kid laundry, etc) he would do if I asked him. 
He makes an effort to make sure he spends time with just me and every evening he asks if I’ve had a good day.

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I honestly dont care if someone has kids or not. Just dont bring along a crazy bm/bd. THATS what i cant "accept"

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I have 2 children by 2 fathers. im in relationship number 3 now. All 3 of the men care about both of the 2 children like they are family.  So no,  that should not be an issue. But i did get sterilised and will not have a third baby with my new husband. its honestly not an ideal situation, but this is the way it is.

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Not me personally but a close family friend has two kids with two different men and then married her current husband (guy #3) and had a third. He’s by far the best out of all three men. Loves all three kids with his whole heart. If you were to meet them today with no context, you would think all three kids were his. He can recount each of her birth stories to a T despite only being present for the third. In short, there’s no reason to think you won’t find love again. Any person who has a problem with your kids isn’t the one for you, and that’s okay bc the right one will come around.
I wasn’t sure I would find anyone with having a child from a previous relationship but I’m with someone wonderful now and I’m thankful I didn’t settle for less.

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I dont see anything wrong with u "finding love" after having 2 kids with another man. U also deserve happiness.
I think u need to find somebody that will love ur children like their own, that is super important for the children to not feel like they dont belong.
I personally dont know if I would be able to date a person that has kids, unless he was a widower or he had full custody and the biological mom had no visitation rights. But my reasons have nothing to do with the kids, I would love those kids with all my heart.

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I have two stepchildren. It’s VERY challenging but... it is what it is

Accepting a woman with 2 kids? How many of u have kids outside marriage or relationship?

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