I am totally confused!! My SO and I have been having sex without a condom for the beginning and then after 5 minutes or so we put a condom on. (Yes I know not the safest method) but anyway. But since Sunday 8-9-15 I have been feeling twinges and pulling at my c-section area, and the twinges at times have me doubled over. Is that normal other c-section mom's who are or are not pregnant? Scar is almost 3 years old. Also my breasts are extremely tender, and have leaked a small amount of fluid once.. WTH is that about?

I started a new anti depressant last week that according to the Internet (we all know how reliable it can and can not be) says breast tenderness can be a side effect. But the twinging in my scar area is new. According to here on glow my period is supposed to start in 8 days and my other tracker says in 12 days (same info used on both) so not sure. Been trying to do some research but not getting any where.

So here is where the confusion lies...do I take a test in a couple of days? Or just wait it out until the other tracker says my period should start and go from there? Not ttc right now my SO and I want to get more situated and better on our feet. But if by chance I am pregnant (or not which ever)we will take it in stride. Any feedback is welcome and preverably constructive and not criticizing would be appreciated.