Masturbation Issue?

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So I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm still a virgin. At this age I'm surprised I still haven't had sex, even though my hormones and body are raging. When I try to masterbate (usually night or so) I play/rub my clit over my panties. I don't even finger myself because I'm kinda scared, lol. So after a while I start to shiver get this amazing feel-good  rise to what I think is an orgasm but it gets too much for me and every single time I am forced to stop and can't continue. I don't get it. Is something wrong with me? Or do I just need to find a SO to do it for me? Haha

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Omg I used to do that!!!!!!! Before I had sex. That's not what sex feels like though. Lol

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Masturbation is awesome...keep doing what you're doing...learn your body...no one will be able to please you like you can.

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Girl you don't need an SO! Haha just keep working with it and get to where you are comfortable enough to keep going. It'll feel awesome.

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I had that too and I could never finish

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Masturbation is a great alternative to sexual intercourse while you are waiting to be ready. Playing with your clit is an excellent way to start learning your body. What you described sounds like you are nearing or have reached orgasm. Next time, consider letting it play out and really learn how to love your body as only you can.

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Do you feel the need to pee ? Because it might be that your body is about to squirt but you can't handle it that you just stop... It happens to me, that's why I haven't squirted yet. I stop myself & I don't let go..

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You're climaxing that's why, I'm the same way it kind takes your breath away and tighten all over well for me anyways lol sorry if TMI

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You're most likely rubbing the most sensitive spot, which granted feels amazing but can become over powering. Try moving up a little on your clit to where the "hood " is, half a finger tip at most. It's still an amazing sensation but isn't as overly sensitive and will make reaching climax easier. And don't worry about age. I lost mine at 19 and I'm glad I waited.

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Giiirl I feel you, 19 and still haven't had sex, I don't get it!? 😂 Not a big deal because I figured out masturbation though 😉 so I'm good until I meet someone I'm into at least.

As for your issue, are you worried about making a noise or someone finding you? I remember when I first started masturbating I was scared I might be noisy so I would stop hahah if it's that, try it out when you're home alone to get the hang of it?

You're already doing it over your underwear so shouldn't be too sensitive (to compare with doing it under the clitoris hood) so the intensity might just be the normal lead up and you're not used to it so you're stopping. When I'm reaaaaally turned on (and not just masturbating because I'm bored) it can be really intense but you just have to push through it and it's worth it! Orgasms when you're super turned on and worked up to it are the best. They can be a bit intimidating if you've never reached it but push past the intensity and you'll get it :)

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Girl I know your pain! I struggle to masterbate too because I very rarely finish as it gets too intense

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