Am I selfish?

My boyfriend and I had a point where we were just really intimate all the time. He said he didn’t want to be our relationship to be so sexual all the time and I was totally fine with this but now it’s not sexual at all. It’s been this at a standstill for a while now. He seems to show no interest in any intimacy at all and is opposing when I try to initiate. I know it’s not all about sex but it shouldn’t be completely lacking either. I’m not really sure why he doesn’t want it but I’m starting to think the worst. Am I selfish for being upset about this or?