Irregular cycles

Cycle day 53. I went off BCP in the very beginning of August. Got the withdrawal period right after and then the first “real” one in the beginning of September. Since then I have not had one. I am on Vitex, a Conception prenatal and Pregnitude as of the beginning of last week. Anyone have any advise? Is this normal? My husband and I are TTC and I just feel really sad knowing my body won’t cooperate no matter what I do.