When I met my boyfriend we were bar tenders together and both pretty wild... when we got together we agreed that wasn't the lifestyle we wanted and promised to better ourselves. We have been together a little over a year now and he lied to me AGAIN about going out to bars. I have followed him before (crazy I know) and he was alone and admits that he always goes out alone and just likes to listen to music and feel the vibe. He is still a bartender and I have gotten a fairly "grown up" job that I like.

I hate that he always goes out and especially when he lies to me about it. I'm not trying to change him but trusted him to change because that's what we had agreed on. He hasn't done anything other than that that's bad, but how can I truly believe that when he lies to me? What else has he done? Trust is a big thing for me. When do I say enough because it kills me a little more every time and I continuously wonder what else he could be lying about.