Couple days ago i read a post from a bitter woman.....along the lines of if you are ttc your 2nd 3rd or 4th child be grateful for what you have bc some of us are ttc our 1st and are in dire need of a baby. Seriously? I couldn't find the original post to comment on so thats y im posting this. I was totally offended by that post. Just bc im ttc my 4th DOESNT mean ive had a long hard road getting to this point. I was with my ex for 10 years....he was abusive....physically and emotionally. He would basically rape me and now i have 3 boys. 3 boys that i would never ever trade for anything!! I left him almost 5 years ago and since then have met the most kind, loving, generous, respectful, and hard working man i have ever dreamed of. I know now what love feels like. I know he is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with. I have never ever created a baby out of love and i am so excited to do so- with him. I have never i mean NEVER felt these feelings of love and adoration and completeness before with a man and i cant wait to create a life that is part of me and part of him. So what if it would be #4 for me???? So before you start complaining about who is trying for #3 #4 or whatever....maybe think to yourself- that we all have our struggles and we all have a past. We all have our issues and i dont think its fair to be bitter towards those of us who are ttc #2 #3 #4 etc. Please dont rain on my parade and make me feel bad or guilty bc im ttc #4. I do wish you good luck though and I hope you do conceive and experience pregnancy and birth. I hope one day you will be happy with yourself. End of rant :)

Ps. Even if you cant conceive, there are thousands of babies and children that need homes and even though you might not have carried and birthed them, you can still be a great mommy to one of them.