So I’m due in about 2 weeks & I just found out my husband has been talking to females at his job. hes been acting kind of weird lately, he had a pic of me on his screen saver for months & then suddenly changed it, he forgot his ring at home & “ fell asleep in the car for 2 hours” and his phone was dead so I had no way to reach him. But hes been putting them on his block list while he’s home and talking to them when he’s not around me. one girl said he gave her his number & when i asked him he said he didn’t even know who the person was & she was clueless to the fact he was even married. he’s a maintenance tech so he’s constantly in and out of peoples apartments and I’m just completely hurt. we have a 7,5 & 3 year old already I just don’t know what to do. I honestly don’t even want him in the delivery room with me anymore cause it’s just going to stress me out and raise my blood pressure. I can barely look at him right now. I’m just so sad and I feel horrible. I honestly wonder if it’s because I couldn’t have any kind of intercourse right now because it is so painful. not that it’s a excuse. but I’m just so depressed now 😓 I’ve already been fighting depression during my pregnancy & that just made it so much worse for me. I’m creating a life and your out doing whatever now how can I even trust him at work.

Update : yes I did confront him, and no this isn’t the first time something like this has happened, he’s done a lot over the span of almost 9 years but his mother and grandmother passed away earlier this year and I was there for him through all of that. But now he’s telling me he was in a very emotional place at that time ( around the time I got pregnant ) and he wasn’t thinking with his mind at the time. and that I deserve better , that I won’t ever trust him and how he wants me to be happy and we just need to stop trying at our marriage. how convenient when I’m so close to delivering our 4th child. everything was fine up until I caught him then all of a sudden he feels like we just won’t work out. he says he didn’t say anything about t earlier because he didn’t want to stress me out. I feel like it’s someone else which is why he’s acting like this now. We just moved into a new place and all. I don’t even have the energy to address him anymore I’m too tired from crying. I’ve barely gotten any sleep the past few days. it’s just feels like a nightmare