My partner and I chose God parents for our daughter. Neither of us have asked them yet. I picked my childhood best friend, we are still in contact and she's made a big effort to check in on us regularly. I also picked another best friend of mine however I haven't spoken to him in over 2 months, he's aware that I've given birth and hasn't checked in once. I think his mum has made more of an effort to be honest. He's been a great friend over the years though and whenever I've needed him, he's been there. I always thought he would be Good role model. I'm just now thinking that I need to choose someone else instead of him. In my eyes my childhood friends behaviour shows me that she genuinely care for my daughter, whereas my others friend lack on contact makes me think he doesn't care or he could just be giving me space. Am I reading too much into things?