Backstory I’ve never hung out with this chick EVER and she lives 45 mins away from me. We just started to talk a month ago. I feel like this is why I keep to myself and don’t try to make friends. I feel used by most ladies I befriend. My last friend literally stopped asking to hang out because I wasn’t getting my refund checks anymore from school.. then I try to make a new friend and this happens 😭. Am I just being paranoid?? Or do y’all think she’s tryna take advantage of my kindness already.