I need help! I suck at making decisions and the only thing I know for sure is I want to get sex tonight. However my boyfriend works at a job the requires him to shower when he gets home so I need an idea to get him revved up the moment he walks in the door all the way until after he showers. (And no I cannot get in the shower with him we’ve tried it and I am wayyyyy too short and then we have to dry off only to be able to have sex because we don’t wanna get water everywhere 🙄) so I need ideas!!!

I’ve never dressed up really but I have a new set I bought for boudoir pictures next month so I could wear that. But I’m worried I’ll look like a goofball with my awkwardness. Plus I don’t even know what to do once I dress up. Do I just wait for him in bed so that he sees me and showers quickly then gets in bed with me? Or do I let him think everything is normal and wait till he showers to dress up? This is so difficult. I am not a sexy person haha help please!!! We are pretty open to spicing up the sex life with stuff so ideas on that would be good too! We have a multitude of toys, floggers, etc. thank you ahead of time!

UPDATE: I sent him a few risqué pictures while I was at work (we like to push any and all boundaries, the riskier the better) and I told him to walk the dogs and be in the shower asap so that when I got home he’d be ready and that he was in for it. He then replied with “I don’t think I’m going to walk the dogs” I asked why and he said, “it takes too much time” Lol y’all I think he’s a little excited and I can’t wait to go home change into my new bra and panty set and be waiting for him to get out of the shower. 😬😬

I think we are still on a high from the marine corps ball this weekend. 😆

This was the convo 😋