One woman will post about how her husband likes porn and she’s ok with it . Then another person will post about how porn isn’t allowed in her home . Or one person will talk about how her husband is allowed to have females friends & then someone else will post about a dramatic experience on why her husband isn’t allowed to have female friends. It’s like they change little details just to receive validation on why they feel the way they feel . Example: “I’m Christian so I don’t like porn” or “I watched porn before I met my boyfriend so it’s okay with me” ...What really confuses me is that they put this useless disclaimer ( I don’t care what you do in your relationship but FOR ME I am for/against blah blah blah) ... So why make a post about it and ask for feedback ? .... 🗣 Because you want validation! .. You feel better when other people agree with you just stfu . If you don’t or do like porn it really doesn’t matter ... 🙄 Your situation isn’t so special or so particular that it’s okay for you to cling to your own opinion without even trying to understand another person’s perspective .