16 days overdue and stressed as hell due 10/27

So.... I wanted a natural delivery if possible. Did not want to be induced or have a C-section. but I agreed to an induction on 11-8 and it didn't take. Nothing happened. My Dr comes in and wants to discuss a C-section. This is my first baby, at this point I've been in hospital since 8pm on 11-7 and it's now 5pm ish on the 8th with nothing progressing all day, super stressed and so scared of a C-section. Dr tells me and fiancee to discuss it and let her nurse know what we want to do, Dr wants to do it the next day Friday 9th. We counter with Monday(Today) and let her nurse know. Friday comes no call during hospital business hours and so I call hospital and ask what's up. Nurse that answers tells me "oh yeah there's a lot if miscommunication on this I guess but your not on the schedule for Monday C-section (I asked) but also your supposed to go to Sanford (other non affiliated hospital) this weekend if you were to go into labor naturally this weekend in case you needed an emergency C-section because there won't be enough ob drs on call if you need one, we have to have 2 obs do the surgery and we have some on vacation and one out of town this weekend" so I'm completely freaking out at this point because for one I can't get my ob records transferred to this other hospital after hours on a weekend and two, they couldn't have called and told me this is why my Dr wanted it for Friday? Saturday morning I call my hospital again and because all this seems so crazy I want to confirm that the non-affiliated hospital is the plan, I speak to a different nurse and ask again about if I'm on schedule for a C-section Monday, still no. But this nurse tells me the night nurse had her info wrong about where I should go in case of labor and that the hospital I need to go to is affiliated (same branch) but an hour away! Needless to say I'm shocked at the lack of communication going on here. Today arrives and I wake up to a text from my actual doctor saying "hello, we missed you at the section this morning, what are your plans for the week?". WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL!? this can't be real. And I responded to that text with what's happened to me this weekend and am still trying to get ahold of my Dr.