My bf said he needs "time apart to figure out who he is" and why he does what he does. Would yall give him time?

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sure I’d give him all the time in the world by leaving him. he doesn’t make you a priority so don’t let yourself be an option anymore hun

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You don’t actually have a choice here. If he wants time, then give him time. If that’s a soft way of saying he wants to breakup, then you let him go and end the relationship.

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Yes I would, he can have all the time in the world. Just don't come back when you figure it out. I want a man not a indecisive boy.

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If he Loves you, he will want to grow WITH you, I said to my boyfriend once that we should take a little time apart and he gave me this whole speech. You guys should try to work things out together, time apart will not fix anything!

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🤔 Hmmm you can find yourself regardless in or out a relationship. Sounds like just an excuse for him to end relationship. I’m sorry 😕

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Why is this optional? It doesn’t sound optional. He’s telling you what he needs, so give it to him 🤷🏼‍♀️.

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I needed some time to think if I really wanted to stay with my boyfriend due to alcohol abuse. He does not drink anymore due to that reason but doesn’t mean I can forget the things that have happened. So yes. I’d give him a break as long as he needs. I took time and needed my boyfriend to understand I need space because I didn’t feel “ US “ being together anymoree. But then turned out, things went OK at first and I’m with him now.