My partner said that we don't communicate very well with one other and the stimulation or the interest ain't there and it wasn't never there when we first met each other.

I told him that this is something that I never did or had in my life, so it's going to hard for me and after I said that to him and I role him my whole story about my life and what I been through for the past 8 years or more. That I'm a woman that been miss treated in so many different levels and beat up by the father's of my children been told that I was ugly and I wasn't nothing and if it wasn't for them I won't have nothing and no one would want me. Also that I was a dumb as shit and been called all types of names u could think of (even names that people make up now). So I just stop doing what I was doing for myself and took care of my kids and as well for me I just shut down and they had me believing that I was that and I was nothing and no one wanted me. After years went by I became the type that started not to trust no man and not to fall in love, when that time comes down that I fall back from them for months and run into them months later. So I told him that it's hard when my time is tied up with kids and working and so please just be patient with me and give me time and I'm going to make time for you......