AM I THE ONLY ONE ?!

Question

Every time when I be having sex with my boyfriend it be good all the time but EVERYTIME we Do have sex I NEVER get An Orgasm ?! The only time I will get off if I Use my TOY that's the only time I would Cum .. I wonder why I can get off from a Toy An not my mans 😫😔 HELLLLLLP

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If you haven't already, try being on top. I was in the same situation until my boyfriend and I tried that. You're a little ache-y at first from using your hands to prop yourself up over him but once you get used to that there's some definite physical benefits for you ☺️

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Make sure you're having clitoral stimulation! Most women can't achieve organsm from vaginal penetration alone. Try the we-vibe as somebody suggested, or simply with his or your fingers! My personal favorite is using my vibrator while having sex, it's small and was very cheap! Good luck and happy humping~

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Join the club. 80% of women have the same problem. Somebody mentioned We-Vibe on one of the forum discussions. I am going to give that a try

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It used to be the same way with my past relationships, but my husband changed that. He wanted us to be able to pleasure each other without toys or hand stimulation so that we could give each other something more than we could give ourselves.

It was really hard to keep from playing with my clit at first (really hard), because that was the only way I knew to get off. But we kept at it and by the end of our honeymoon I orgasmed every time (we waited for marriage unlike my past relationships).

Almost a year now and we have the best sex (even climax together) every time. He plays with my clit (and everywhere else) during foreplay now but I get my orgasms from penetration and they're the best! Hands off at first really made a difference in the end. Takes longer to get there the first few times you do it because that's not what you're used to but your body starts to crave it. Nothing wrong with getting off other ways but I love that it's my husband's body that does it. :)

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Yo I can NEVER come from just penetration.... DO NOT FEEL BAD!!!! Lol. Definitely get on that clit with whatever you want to

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I think it's more an issue of being comfortable enough in your own skin. For the longest time I could never orgasm because I was too focused on how I was appearing to my partner or judging myself for all my insecurities. When you're alone, there's no pressure to perform or act a certain way. You'll be able to cum with someone when you're most comfortable with yourself. Love yourself, you're beautiful. ❤️

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Have lots and lots of foreplay!! Get kinky with it lol. Have him play with your toy. Use toys on each other... I sugges getting a wevibe!! It's AMAZING!! You can use it alone or during sex with your man.

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