should I tell him?

Question

I had two miscarriages back to back in June and august, it devastated both myself and my husband.. so we decided to get on birth control....well I've been taking it a month and a half and just took another positive pregnancy test the other day. I don't want to tell him and lose another baby because he may never want to ever try again 😭 it's taken a toll on our sex life because he's so scared. what should I do?

Answer

Maybe get confirmation from your doctor first and let them decide what course to take because you have had two miscarriages they may recommend you do something different.

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I think your husband would be more upset if you don’t tell him than if you do. I always choose the side of honesty in a marriage. When you said “for better or worse” you were promising to help each other through good and bad..he would not want you going through it by yourself. I would definitely talk to your doctor and ask if you should discontinue the BC pills since you may be pregnant. Also start taking prenatal vitamins daily if you’re not already.

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It's different for everyone but I've had 4 miscarriages and I tell my husband right away because we want to celebrate every minute we have.

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