I am not his mom

Randi

So about 3 months ago my husband invited his cousin (who is 23 years old) to live with us because he really had no where else to go. Everything started out fine. He helped clean the house never gave any problems he was just a huge sweetheart. He got a job with my husband and everything was going well. About 2 weeks after he got the job he decided he didnt feel like going anymore. He quickly lost his job. We were only making him pay $145 for rent and my husband and I covered everything else including house hold items like toilet paper and stuff like that we buy food and pay to do laundry. His first check came and it was gone that day. All of it we didnt get a penny for rent. (He blew it all in weed) My husband and I brushed it off and said just double up next month. Well get never found a job and my husband got laid off so we have been living off of just my income and we recently found out that I'm pregnant with our rainbow baby. 💙💜 but it's hard on just my income. Not only have we never seen any money for rent (now 3 months later) hes stopped cleaning and he eats and drinks everything I got to keep a healthy diet for my baby. And he doesnt replace anything! He invites his girlfriend over whenever he wants and shes rude they drank my entire case of water (I cant drink tap water it makes me sick) in just 2 days because all they do is sit in his bedroom and smoke weed all day. And when they are on bad terms he throws MY stuff around the house. So i have to pay all the Bill's pay rent buy food worry about my baby and clean up after this grown man all of the time and it's really stressing me out. My husband and I have talked about kicking him out but he really has no where else to go. He was only supposed to stay with us until he got his shit together and got his daughter back but hes really not making an effort. I think it's time for him to go but my husband wont kick him out. He keeps saying "just wait until we move" but I dont want to put up with this for another 3 months. Any advice?? Am I just overreacting?