We’ve been bickering quite a lot recently. We have a 12 week old daughter and since I fell pregnant I feel like my husband has been distant with me.

I noticed lately he’s been watching porn, he’s not interested in me sexually and if anything isn’t baby related, then he doesn’t want to know. As soon as the baby sleeps for the night he just rolls over and goes to sleep himself. There’s just no affection.

He’s gone out today on a Work thing but just before he went we fell out, but this time he told me he fucking hated me and punched the door before he left.

This row just feels different. I don’t know if he said that to hurt me (because I’ve expressed previously that I don’t feel as if he’s got any time for me), or if he completely meant it.

I’ve been in pieces since he left to go out because that’s the first time he’s ever told me he hates me.

I really don’t know what to expect when he comes home but I don’t have anyone I can confide in, so just needed to post this to get it off my chest.