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soooooo. I am a senior in high school who is a virgin. I’m Othrodox and was grown in a strict environment, and once I got released I didn’t know, and still don’t, whether or not to have sex. I want to feel included with all the other teens. and I masturbate so I want to know how real sex feels. but I’m also afraid of losing my virginity to some stupid boy who I’ll never see again, or doesn’t know what to do. and I kind of want it to be special. I’m also incredibly insecure about my body: I feel chubby and have hair ALL over my body which I always hide. 
I need tips. kind of about anything relating to this.

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If you feel insecure about body hair honey just shave it I personally just prefer to shave it’s my preference for myself and as for sex wait till you’re completely ready and find a person that makes you feel beautiful and special and make sure his intentions are good and that they’re respectful if they really care about you they’ll wait till your ready and don’t let your hormones choose for you because I know just giving in is so easy when your hormones are raging p.s. never forget protection condoms and if you can get on birth control cause babies are a heavy commitment.

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Dont do it just to do it, find someone who is willing to wait and get to know you. Someone who actually cares, especially if you dont want it to be with some random stupid guy. You gotta find someone who is serious about you.

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Don't feel pressured. Only you can decide if you are ready or not. I also want to point out that I thought the same way. Meaning I wanted my first time to be special. So I had sex with someone I thought I loved and then 3 months later we broke up. Later on in life I found out that it's the love you have for your partner that makes sex special regardless if it's your first time or not.

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There is no race to lose your virginity. I was recommend waiting for the one guy that makes you feel like he deserves that gift.

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I know it’s hard to be peer pressured but sex is something so intimate, personal and actually can effect your life on many levels. It’s also none of anyone’s business what your sexual life is like 🙄 
I was the same way as you are. I’m orthodox and I did really want to wait until marriage. Then college hit and I was extremely horny and didn’t know what to do with myself..... I fell in love with the guy and we had sex pretty fast (only 3 weeks into our relationship). I was 18 btw. Four years later we are engaged and he’s the love of my life. I honestly got lucky that he’s so wonderful and it turned out fine. And also I was regretting not waiting until marriage for a while.. I am okay now bc I know we’re getting married and he still will be my only one, as I am his only too. 
When I was a virgin I couldn’t wait to experience sex, I was very curious. Honestly, sex can be good, but it also doesn’t feel like anything a lot of the times, or it feels good only for like several seconds lol. I know everyone is different but that’s how it is for me. Masturbating is not much different from sex for me. The best part of sex is the feeling and love that you are experiencing towards that person. The mechanics are not that exiting most of the time. My fiancé and I don’t have sex that much, we just play using other ways. Idk it’s just our preference, so sex is not everything. 
To help you cope with that I would say get involved, get yourself distracted, try to avoid reading or exposing yourself to sexual stuff, just try not to think about it as much as possible. I know how hard it can be, but it’s worth it, in my opinion. I wish you best, stay strong girl ❤️😘

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I'm a senior and I just had my first kiss last night, and it was wasn't great. Wait until you find someone you're comfortable with don't rush it.

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